All too often you hear people bitch and moan about their life. No one can ever make you do anything. You always have the option to refuse. You may probably lose your job or your partner but you will keep your integrity. Rather than be miserable, find the joy and love in your job, your marriage, your friendships or leave.

Many will say “but I can’t leave” for whatever reason. Then look for something, anything to bring you joy in that situation. And most of all, don’t take your frustration out on other people. Especially on the only people that stand by you.